The thought of the first day at preschool
is the one that gives jitters to both the parents as well as the children.
After all, it is the first moment when your child steps into the outside world.
So, it is bound to create fears and excitement on the part of parents as well
as children. But, the reasons for these jitters are different on both the
sides. Let us have a look on them and see how these can be overcome.
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Toddlers Junction |
As a parent, there are several issues
of concern that will arise in your mind. As this is your first experience of
living without your child, you might have several fears like will your child be
able to live without you for that long? What if they get lost in that huge
school building of Toddlers Junction?
Whether they can ride to the bus all by themselves? There can also be concerns
like whether the teacher will pay attention among so many students or how you
will your child get adapted to the new environment? On the other hand, the
parents can be very excited to see their little one in that uniform, packing
their bags and the tiny lunch box for the first time, or simply the hug that
you are going to give them when they come running from the classroom.
No matter whether you feel the
positive vibes or the gray shades of anxiety, you need to share them with the
child, but in a way that the child gets stronger and happier. You should learn
to recognize your emotions and then the art of managing them. Because if you
are not at peace with these feelings, how will you make your child confident?
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Golden Bells Play School |
The children feel the jitters for a
whole lot of different things and much more than their parents. The most common
fear is that the parents will decrease their love by sending them away from
themselves for so long. So, the obvious concern for children is how will they
survive without their mother? Who will help them tie their shoelaces? Who will
be their new friend? Will they be able to enjoy the class in Golden Bells Play School? And many such
questions conquer their minds. So, as a parent, it is your responsibility to
overcome your child’s anxiety and make them happy, excited and cheerful about
their first day of school. For your help, below are a few tips-
· Listen to them- Before you can help them, it is really
important that you get fully aware what exactly your child’s concerns are. You
need to know what exactly bothers your child and then approach them
accordingly.
· Boost their self- awareness- As the child will enter a world fully
unknown to them, it is important that you boost their self-awareness by helping
them memorize little things like the house address, your mobile number, age,
etc.. Also, ensure that they are able to know and spell the correct name of
their body parts. All this would help with the safety of the child.
·
Read good books about the preschool- By telling them some good stories of the
kindergarten, you can make them familiar to the experience. Also, the children
will get motivated and recognize that they are not alone in this journey.
·
Make routines early- Just before the school starts, make their
routine early according to the school. For instance, maintain the sleeping and
waking up time of the child. By doing so, the child will not have a problem in
adjusting to the daily routine as there will be no major change.
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